If You Show Me

If you show me you don’t give a Fuck, I’ll show you that I’m better at it — unknown DA

“NOT giving a fuck” doesn’t mean that you don’t care about anything – it is a misinterpretation if you think this is the meaning of “giving zero fucks” & ultimately detrimental to your life to not discern otherwise.
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If you had nothing to care about at all then you’d have no ambition to succeed & no motive to pursue the things you love. However, the chances are, your life is being consumed by all the minuscule, overwhelming, unimportant fucks you’re giving. Hence, the key is to take time to truly think about & cut all of the unnecessary “fucks that you’re giving” & handpick the things that are important enough to impact your life for the better. This means: dedicate what you do give a fuck about to what counts, as opposed to what drains & exhausts you; focus on what’s going to make a positive difference to your life.
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Surrounding yourself with successful, ambitious people [& cutting out all the toxic people who try really hard to not give a fuck] is a great place to start, because these “types” have mastered the art of discerning between what’s worth giving a fuck about & what’s not in context of achieving their goals. A positive environment such as this is contagious, equally so is hanging out with assholes who want to distract you away from your ambitions, so which do you want? IT’S YOUR CHOICE!
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Be comfortable with giving up the unimportant things that make your mind spiral out of control. Who the fuck cares about what someone else thinks of you when in actual terms they have NO POWER OVER YOU UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM, so let it fucking go & do yourself a favour to limit the fucks you give about any assholes in your life to NONE at all.

Therefore, the purpose of “not giving a fuck” is to move away from any negativity in order to stop feeling offended, sorry or inadequate due to the shiftiness people want to throw at you. In real terms, this means you want to put all aspects that bring you happiness, confidence &/or success in a row & let all the shitty ones go. SO, RULE OUT ALL THE UNIMPORTANT FUCKS YOU’RE GIVING & BECOME “DISCERNING” AT NOT GIVING A FUCK!