If You’ve Ever Left Me

If you’ve ever left me, just know, it’s still love. You weren’t built for this journey and that’s okay —- @romeflynn .

New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings. The standard response to failures, mistakes and heartbreak is to crumble, to drown in your thoughts, re-living whatever situation you’ve been through and spiral down to a dark place…. that’s what “the other side” wants for you…. so, don’t! .

Instead, decide in your mind to do the opposite of what every negative feeling you have – litterally flip the switch on your emotions and use that pain to move away from the standard expected response.
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Realising that when things fall apart, as an opportunity to start over with greater experience, wisdom and skills than you had before, is powerful. If you ALLOW, the lessons learnt from failures, mistakes and heartbreak are scars that can BUILD US, making those who are able to constantly ADAPT to this the ones who win… .

Your attitude and thoughts, your approach and looking beyond the standard expectations of how people “ought” to react in tough times, will determine your “altitude” out of any situation… .

Then, put your skills, knowledge, discipline, competence and persistence to use. Figure what you can do to make a difference and then do it.
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There are things you’re passionate about, people you love, ideas you believe in. Re-channel the negatives to engage that passion, that belief in worthwhile endeavours…. because to be somebody you must last, so, keep moving…
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#mindsetiseverything #love