Never Trust Anyone

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We hear a lot, “Never trust anyone”. A cold directive, that can leave us feeling alone and devoid of ever being able to be close with anyone for fear of being betrayed. It’s advice that is offered widely so that we don’t get hurt even by people we thought we could rely on….

However, if you shift the narrative from “Never trust anyone” to “You can’t trust that someone’s never going to betray you”, then this perspective can alter the impact of the actions of others on you….

Changing your approach to the topic of trusting others AWAY from “whether or not you can trust someone else” to “TRUSTING THAT YOU CAN HANDLE IT, IF THEY DO BREAK YOUR TRUST” is a transformative change to mindset.

It means that you “psychologically” build yourself up robust enough with coping mechanisms that allow you to be able to “let go and walk away”. This change of perspective on the matter is a massive factor to the impact “you allow” someone else’s breach of trust to have on you.

Maybe you can trust them, maybe you can’t: at this point you don’t know either way. Only time and their actions will tell if you can trust another, or not. Hence, it’s futile to fret over whether you can trust someone else because that is a pointless waste of your energy to concern yourself with.

The key therefore becomes to “worry” only about YOURSELF and how YOU’LL be able to handle the stress, if and when your trust is broken = furnish yourself with the coping mechnisims to “manage your emotions” upon impact and get to the point where if it works out that’s “OK”, and if it doesn’t work out, well, that’s ALSO “OK”. Once you reach being in a state of “not phased” regardless of happens, you’ll have lifted yourself to a powerful place of calm….

Trust YOURSELF with this and good luck in2 2022 ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥